Tribute to my Father-in-Love
A new friend told me that's what they call "in-laws" in her family... and it's an appropriate description for my father-in-law who was one of the sweetest, kindest, most wonderful men you'd ever meet in your life!
I have known Earl Gladstone Barbour, Jr for six years now, four of which he has been my father-in-law/love. I just wish we had more time together. Last night, on July 20, 2008, he made his transition and died peacefully at home after a courageous battle with lung cancer.
I often do an exercise with my coaching clients called "Standards and Boundaries" that helps us look at the relationships in our lives and how we want to live with more intention. One of the activities encourages you to list five role models in your life. Earl is on my list. Why?
Because Earl is one of the few people I know who absolutely 100% lived his life by the golden rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Earl had a strong faith in God. He put family first. He was incredibly giving. And he loved life.
He adored his wife Jo Anne and his son Eric, he loved his step-daughters Susan and Molly and he doted on his five grandchildren Nathan, Matthew, Sophie, Hannah and Tess. He was beloved by all who knew him and his presence will be sorely missed.
When I asked my husband last night to describe his father in just a few words, he said loyal, loving, generous and servant. That about captures it. I want to live my life like that.
So to Earl, my dear father-in-love, I know that they are having a huge celebration in heaven right now and you are the guest of honor! As we grieve for the loss of your bright light on this Earth, know that your spirit will live on in our hearts and minds until it is our turn to join you at the big party in the sky! I love you!
