It wasn't so bad...
Over the last several days, I've had friends ask me "So... how was it?". They knew I was returning to work after a two-month hiatus and stepping out into the networking world in Tallahassee with a little bit of anxiety. They were all so supportive and I am so grateful. Well, the answer is "It was great!". What was great about it?
1. It had Structure and I love Structure! I chose BNI as my first meeting to attend because I know the ropes, having been a member for 3 1/2 years. It's an international organization designed to help businesses cultivate referrals with a wonderful motto of "Givers Gain". If you have never attended a BNI meeting, I strongly encourage you to find a chapter in your area.
2. Being new to town is an advantage. People take pity on you and feel they have to be nice to you. Actually, I think people in Tallahassee are just generally nice and this meeting was no exception. Several people welcomed me to town, asked me plenty of questions.
3. It's a small, small world. The gentleman that I sat next to at lunch is from my husband's hometown of Bristol, TN and their families go to the same church! He was super friendly and even bought my lunch! What a guy! Thanks Ryland Musick!
4. I created some "next steps" for myself. I have scheduled lunch with two of the members and am attending a Chamber of Commerce Business After Hours with two others.
5. I feel hopeful. Networking in a new place or even in the place you've been living (but haven't gotten out very much!) can be intimidating. Having one positive experience can really encourage you to keep putting yourself "out there" and making connections.
